Premature ejaculation happened to my ex. He didn't care about it, I did. He wouldn't speak about what he liked, and wouldn't listen when I told him what I liked. So he'd let me please him, but he'd never please me. It may sound selfish but, after two months of that, I couldn't deal with his vanity and selfishness anymore, so we broke up. Then I found out that he'd cheated, multiple times, and that made me miserable, and added salt to my wound. I wish he would have spoken to me about it, but he just refused.